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5 Scripture Promises to Pray Over Your Kids

 

A woman praying with her eyes closed and hands clasped

Praying over our children is an activity that should not be taken lightly. Our enemy, the adversary is working hard to deviate them from their God-given purpose and we should also be on our guard and stand in agreement with the word of God for the lives of our children. The future depends so much on how we raise our kids. Jesus said in Luke 23:28, 'But Jesus turning unto them said, Daughters of Jerusalem, weep not for me, but weep for yourselves, and for your children.' A mother's love for her children is pure and unconditional, this is why a mother's prayer can have huge impacts on the child. This does not mean a father's prayer is not equally effective, in most cases, it is the mom who bears the burden of praying for her kids.

Praying for your kids will enforce the will of God in their lives and because we cannot be with them everywhere and at all times, we can trust God who is omniscient to keep them out of harm's way and to help them to always make the right choices. It is also at the top of every mother's concern that her child be saved and early too. As parents, there is so much that is out of our control. We can do our best with intentional parenting but there is only so much we can do. 

Why pray for your kids?

  • God is always on the lookout for people who are seeking him and if we don't seek his face in prayer, destruction is the resultant effect. Ezekiel 22:30 says, 'And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it: but I found none. Praying for your kids puts a hedge of protection over them that wouldn't be there otherwise. 
  • Another reason we desperately need to pray is found in 1 Peter 5:8, 'Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.' Our kids will become the devil's prey if we do nothing about it. Our adversary is always on the lookout and we can be sure that his plans are no good.
  • Lastly, there is the promise of answers as found in Isaiah 49:25, 'But thus saith the LORD, Even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered: for I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I will save thy children.' There it is, the assurance we all need to know as we seek him in faith.

Why pray the scriptures?

There are times we pray as God impressed the need in our hearts and other times we need to hold God to his promises. He said in Isaiah 55:11, 'So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.' The scriptures also record the word of God as the more sure word of prophecy in 2 Peter 1:19, 'We have also a more sure word of prophecy; whereunto ye do well that ye take heed...' We need to keep reminding God to keep his word after all, he made the promise!

War room prayers for your kids

2 Peter 3:9 - The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Prayer Point: Soul salvation.
Prayer Sample: Heavenly Father, I thank you for [.................]. I ask that they will not take your love for granted, rather let your Spirit impress upon their hearts the need to give their lives completely and wholeheartedly to you in Jesus' name, Amen.

Isaiah 30:21 - And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.
Prayer Point: Walk with God. 
Sample Prayer: Lord Jesus, I'm grateful for the gift of [...........]. I ask that their ears will be tuned to hear your still small voice and that it will be stronger in their spirit than the voice of their peers or anyone who tries to lead them astray. Please give them the courage to walk away from evil and choose you and your ways, every time, in Jesus' dear name, Amen.

1 Corinthians 5:11But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
Prayer Point: Godly company
Sample Prayer: Heavenly Father I thank you for [..................]. I lift them up to you asking that you sift the company they keep and remove from their sphere of influence anyone whose life does not give you glory or that you would transform them by your Spirit. Teach them the meaning of true friendship and help them form wholesome and lasting relationships in Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

Luke 2:52 - And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man.
Prayer Point: Be the person God created him/her to be.
Prayer Sample: Thank you Jesus for the life of [..................] Lord, I ask that your Spirit will always be with them and will guide them into your perfect will for their lives. Let them be filled with your sense of purpose for them and not run after seemingly shiny objects and let them be whole and complete in you in Jesus' name, Amen.

1 John 4:4 - Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
Prayer Point: A life of victory.
Prayer Sample: Thank you Lord for the life of [...............], I pray that they would know their place in Christ Jesus and not be deceived by the lies of the enemy. Let them walk in the manifestation of your grace and power all the days of their lives in Jesus' name, Amen. 

I hope these scriptures will ignite your heart to seek God continually on behalf of your children. This is an investment that can never go wrong. Please share this post and follow us on Pinterest and Facebook. Thank you. 



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